Sexuality

In regards to sexuality, I really liked another post I read about how we shouldn't try so hard to label it because everyones preferences are so different and are sometimes subject to change as we grow and discover.  That isnt to say that we can somehow plant ideas or sexual preferences in people, but rather that as we grow and experience life we uncover preferences in ourselves which we may not have recognized before.  Just as the stereo-typical heterosexual preteen may discover a "crush" on a boy, so too might they discover later in their life that they have a preference for a certain kind of male body type over another.  Our sexual preferences are individual and unique and personal.  Why should we clump them under rigid and useless labels?